Kash, if only, just imagine……….
The Hindi word ‘Kash’, which stands for ‘if’ in English are one of the most repetitive words used in an individual’s life. We all use this almost every time in our life just by using different word like if only, just imagine, and may be. The irony behind these words is all these words just push us into an imaginary road which leads to the highway of sorrow and disappointment.
Some of the most common ‘Kash’ statements which I make include; just imagine if I was born for very rich parents, if I would have taken my studies more seriously in my school times then things would have been different, I wish I had a job with a better salary, and most latest or rather painful of all ‘Kash’ she would have expressed herself then the life would have been different. The series of events which I have gone through these days has got a lot of such ‘if only’ thinking in my brain. The thing which matters is what do such thoughts give us?
A set of imaginary things like a royal house, a 90% of marks, a cute looking girlfriend, a salary of above 50,000, a good looking and popular me and blah … blah …. It’s true we get a short term pleasure but at the cost of what? Well whenever I have used these words I just think about all those things which I have never achieved, it makes me feel sad for being close to almost many things and still loosing it, it makes me feel bad for whatever I am today. It reminds me about my past which I can never change, and tries to spoil the fun which I have in my present. It haunts me when I think I must have done that, this, or whatever. They are the moments which I always wanted to have but I failed to.
All those people reading this please understand analyzing our past is always good but regretting for it is not a sign of a wise person. We must firstly realize the fact that “the more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present.” It is true that series of such imaginations will never end in anyone’s life but we must have a power to control it.
“Just imagine if you would have not wasted your may years behind thinking just Kash main yeh hota…….stop thinking the same way again guys…. Go back to work….. J
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