Kash, if only, just imagine……….

Kash, if only, just imagine……….

The Hindi word ‘Kash’, which stands for ‘if’ in English are one of the most repetitive words used in an individual’s life. We all use this almost every time in our life just by using different word like if only, just imagine, and may be. The irony behind these words is all these words just push us into an imaginary road which leads to the highway of sorrow and disappointment.

Some of the most common ‘Kash’ statements which I make include; just imagine if I was born for very rich parents, if I would have taken my studies more seriously in my school times then things would have been different, I wish I had a job with a better salary, and most latest or rather painful of all ‘Kash’ she would have expressed herself then the life would have been different. The series of events which I have gone through these days has got a lot of such ‘if only’ thinking in my brain. The thing which matters is what do such thoughts give us?

A set of imaginary things like a royal house, a 90% of marks, a cute looking girlfriend, a salary of above 50,000, a good looking and popular me and blah … blah …. It’s true we get a short term pleasure but at the cost of what? Well whenever I have used these words I just think about all those things which I have never achieved, it makes me feel sad for being close to almost many things and still loosing it, it makes me feel bad for whatever I am today. It reminds me about my past which I can never change, and tries to spoil the fun which I have in my present. It haunts me when I think I must have done that, this, or whatever. They are the moments which I always wanted to have but I failed to.

All those people reading this please understand analyzing our past is always good but regretting for it is not a sign of a wise person. We must firstly realize the fact that “the more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present.” It is true that series of such imaginations will never end in anyone’s life but we must have a power to control it.

“Just imagine if you would have not wasted your may years behind thinking just Kash main yeh hota…….stop thinking the same way again guys…. Go back to work….. J

----------- Bibin Alexander

A new venture of life.

It's after a long time I am coming back in my account and trying to scribble something in my blog. Well guys I am finally a graduate. I topped in my college with 70%, hmm.... stop laughing guys (my friends) its actually true. I even got a job as a content writer.

Well I never imagined myself getting up at morning going to job and coming back till 10 at night. When I used to see my brother and other friends going for job and coming late I used to think I can never do and it is so boring, but when my turn came I found it very interesting. The best part in this is I was desperately searching for a job attended almost 8 interviews in a month; came close in cracking many interviews but failed and finally got a job as a content writer. This is the moment when I realized no matter how much we run, cry or search for anything in life, we will get it only at the right time.

After joining I realized going for job is not an easy task. It’s just like getting up early in the morning and going for a war with almost everything which comes across your way right from leaving home at time, competing the wok task assigned to us, handle the tantrums and the mood swings of the boss. Oh well the most difficult part among all this things is travelling in trains. It’s true if we live in Mumbai then trains are our life line but I had such an awesome experience just in this short span of time that I don’t feel it a life line any more. I would like to share the three major experience firstly some a** hole stole my mobile, an argument with a young guy, and thirdly a real fight with an above 50 year old uncle. After having such weird experiences I rank travelling the most difficult part among all. Every day after getting down from train I understand the real meaning of “life after death”.

I don’t know why people get so much angry after getting into trains; I find everyone staring at each other as all people are there enemies. I found many unknown people staring at me in anger I don’t understand the reason behind it. But trust me people do this! This is an advice to all those who travel in train please don’t stare at each other, as 377 is legal now some people may misinterpret. If you are angry at any of the things please don’t remove it on the fellow passengers. It is simply a senseless thing to do.

Well if you are planning to work then welcome to the world of monotonous life. This is the major reason why people find work as boring. You will start missing all those days with your friends and family which you spent. Most importantly you will start understanding the values of Sundays. The whole week all my colleagues along with me work just waiting for the Sunday to come. I never knew Sundays are so precious.

Well this are actually all negative things but some one has rightly said “Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it”. So I am trying to react in the best possible I could do and I even expect you people to do the same. All the best J